A Nurturing Environment November 17, 2020The Pacific Institute As parents, we want our children to be safe, but sometimes we confuse safety with control. Most parents establish a few ...Read More »
Having It Both Ways October 2, 2020The Pacific Institute Today, let's look at the art of accepting things from others. Everyone knows that it feels great to give, and most of us...Read More »
Mindset for Work May 19, 2020The Pacific Institute Do you have trouble getting your kids to buckle down when there are chores to be done? Here are a few tips on how to hel...Read More »
Beliefs Can Be Changed March 3, 2020The Pacific Institute If you have negative beliefs about yourself, did you ever stop to take a look at how they got there in the first place? ...Read More »
Relationships, Rules and Parenting February 14, 2020The Pacific Institute If you are a parent or grandparent, you know there are plenty of rules for raising kids. Today, let’s consider why ign...Read More »
Positive Reinforcement February 13, 2020The Pacific Institute The finest professional animal trainers never punish their animals, except as a last resort or to prevent injury. They k...Read More »
The Value in Being Responsible February 11, 2020The Pacific Institute One of the most important things we can teach our children is a sense of responsibility. But have you ever thought about...Read More »
Model Children? Maybe Not. December 4, 2019The Pacific Institute Do you know any parents who are determined to raise model children? Let’s hope not, because sometimes, a model child i...Read More »
Reinforcing Relationships November 11, 2019The Pacific Institute Have you hugged your kids today? This isn’t just “bumper sticker” philosophy. Dr. Martin Seligman includes Relatio...Read More »
Finding Role Models September 27, 2019The Pacific Institute Just about everyone knows that good role models are important for a child’s development, but have you ever thought abo...Read More »
Plant, Water and Fertilize September 2, 2019The Pacific Institute Do you know people who talk about kids who can learn and kids who can’t? Or, kids who can be helped and kids who can...Read More »
Self-Worth & Behavior August 21, 2019The Pacific Institute Whether you are raising kids or trying to improve your own self-esteem, the relationship between who you are and what yo...Read More »
Self-Fulfilling Expectations August 19, 2019The Pacific Institute Do you know what a self-fulfilling prophecy is? Most people know that a self-fulfilling prophecy is an event that, becau...Read More »
Living Up to What’s Expected July 8, 2019The Pacific Institute Have you ever had an IQ test – a so-called “intelligence” test? Do you know how well you did? That test just may h...Read More »
Nurturing Childhood Creativity May 2, 2019The Pacific Institute Creativity is a highly-valued character trait and today, let’s talk about how to help children grow into creative adul...Read More »
Teaching Children to Risk April 4, 2019The Pacific Institute We all want our children to be safe and happy, but is there such a thing as too much safety, too much protection? Raisin...Read More »
Learning to Face Our Fears February 15, 2019The Pacific Institute Everyone feels frightened from time to time, especially young children. Let’s face it. There are some pretty frighteni...Read More »
Growing Character February 5, 2019The Pacific Institute Today, let’s look at what parents can do to help their children develop good character. How do people develop chara...Read More »
Recipe for Strength and Resiliency January 21, 2019The Pacific Institute An interesting topic of discussion came up the other day. A group of folks was talking about how some people perceive th...Read More »
A Nurturing Environment November 16, 2018The Pacific Institute As parents, we want our children to be safe, but sometimes we confuse safety with control. Most parents establish a few ...Read More »
Competition September 20, 2018The Pacific Institute Have you ever watched highly competitive sports with your kids? Let's talk about the kinds of messages our kids get from...Read More »
Setting the Pattern August 7, 2018The Pacific Institute When your younger children crave attention, do they throw a tantrum, misbehave or act out inappropriately? If so, perhap...Read More »
Communicating Expectations July 25, 2018The Pacific Institute What do you expect from your kids? How do you communicate your expectations to them? Today, let's talk about what's reas...Read More »
Lessons to be Learned June 7, 2018The Pacific Institute The best teachers learn from their students. The wisest parents teach and learn from their kids. Today let's talk about ...Read More »
Attention and Recognition June 6, 2018The Pacific Institute When your children want attention, what do they do? Throw a tantrum? Misbehave? Act inappropriately? Perhaps you can sho...Read More »
Learning to Love Work May 18, 2018The Pacific Institute Do you have trouble getting your kids to buckle down when there are chores to be done? Here are a few tips on how to hel...Read More »